Guys, For someone that heard it all before and made it on the otherside, I want you to know things can change. Work on yourself being the great person you are and can be. Remember do not believe anything they say, they are trying to justify their decisions. One way to stop their plans is for them to see the new you.
By the way, I also got, "The only good thing that came from this marriage is the two boys" "I never had fun with you" "I don't know why I ever married you" "I hate you so much, I pretend your head is in front of me during kickboxing"
So, things can change from all of this madness, remember that. Patience!