Originally Posted By: Coach
ILYBINILWY

I love you (Philia Love) but I am not in love (eros) with you.

yeah, yeah. that phrase--it's a cop out, a way to continue to look like a good guy. as in, I don't want to look like a real creep by saying I don't love you any more, we'll just pretend I still enjoy your company/want the best for you. meanwhile I'm going out and acting on my hormonal impulses with somebody I like better now. it doesn't really mean a thing!


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012