We just received the confirmation letter from Retrouvaille for next weekend.
At the bottom of the letter, in bold, underlined text it says:
"...the weekend is not a two-day miracle cure; the attitude you bring with you to the weekend is of the utmost importance. You must come prepared to work and work hard.
This is not a relaxing weekend nor is it a passive weekend. We will not force you together or push you, for we respect you maturity and your freedom, but you must have a desire to make your marriage work."
Over the past week, this is where Mrs. Thinker focused - the last phrase:
"...you must have a desire to make your marriage work."
"But I don't, she says", "Not really". "It would be just trying to force something that just isn't meant to be"
She is, however, still helping me make arrangements for the weekend - childcare, etc.
Last edited by Thinker; 09/30/0906:10 PM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
