I have 7,9,11 year old sons. They overheard their mother tell me last week that she just doesn't want to be married anymore for the 10th time in five months..They cried for an hour about us getting a divorce. It is hell on them. You have to wonder how a human being can do that to their kids...But they do.
It is easy to say, focus on the kids, but try. I try to spend every minute I am home engaged with them. Football practice, homework, making lunches for school..whatever you can. I won't lie. My hope is that she sees the value in staying together. Not for the kids sake(that won't be healthy for you or the kids) but for you. That they see that you are a good guy. That is worth trying. I firmly believe love is a choice. They did love you once. It can happen again...I am getting to the end of my rope. You are just starting the journey...
Remarried 6 mo S 12 S 13 S 16 SD 12 SD 16 SD 17 SS 19
