Maybe ask if she will trade favors? You help and she ...???

OK...it was just a joke!

In all seriousness, I am right with you here. I am still torn a little, but leaning to the dark tactic.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.