I hope tonight goes well. You are on the right path, it is just going to be bumpy. As much as I would like to get where you are, I think it is still a long, long road to get back to where you want to be.
Stay upbeat...you've had great success so far.
M 33, W 30, SD 10, D 5, S 4
Made it through the WAW, living happily together now. And I am much wiser for it!