Ups and Downs

[wanttobebetter]

That is tough spot....do you be cool and nice and help out. Be a part of that...maybe she'll remember you when she sees that color? Or do you detach and be dark, tell her you're not interested.

This is where I get torn....which is the better route for me long term? My plan is to not set foot into her apt.

She is so hard headed she wouldn't ask for help last night moving mattresses and other heavy things. She dropped one on her foot but did not ask for help. I probably would have if she would have asked. But she didn't so I just gave the kids their bath.