At least you are in the same house. Harder to go dark but you also get the opportunity to see what works and what doesn't.
After mine moves out tomorrow, I am going JofF's route and go as dark as possible. Limit communication to the kids, limit the exchange, etc.....if nothing else to help detach for peace of mind.
I do't see how you could do otherwise.
My W said at one time that she wanted me to be involved. WTF? You want me to come and help you pick out paint colors?
If it helped, I would muster up the strength to make muself do it (or go numb enough enough to get through it), but I don't think it will. I don't want to act like this OK.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
