Originally Posted By: JonF


Can't promise that'll be your experience - but your W is allowing hugs! Mine would've punched me (or anyone) in the eye!


We've just gotten back to hugging. We've been all over the map this past year.

We used to E-mail back and forth, text or call at least a couple of times each day. I used to come straight home from work 99% of the time and we would spend the evenings together.

I haven't been "dark" lately, but I have been making sure to give space, especially after we have been close. I thought that it was telling that the girl who I never thought would come to me kind of has been a couple of times recently. I was gone or busy most of the weekend...she slept with me Sunday. I was out all day yesterday...she called.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.