strong & patient (most days)

[kat727]

And your L is "supposed" to be tough??? Just don't see it. Maybe you should tell her to get off of her rear and do the job you are paying her for. No one should 1) Just be able to come up and take your kids when you have already been sticking to a previous arrangement and you have both agreed to previous said agreement. You are NOT aggreeing to the changes he is trying to make now. 2)He should not be able to hold your funds "hostage" unless you do as he says. I believe he was ordered by the court to pay those funds until your divorce was done and finances updated.

Your L is sounding like she is just tired of the whole thing and is going to roll over. Light a fire under her Karen and tell her to get to it NOW.

kat