How is your D doing? Have you decided how to approach the possibility of a move with her? What is your H's relationship with the kids like these days?
Tomorrow is D's bday- I can't believe she's gonna be 17. She looks so grown up. (She was born on my MIL's bday, so Mom couldn't say I never gave her anything!) I really don't think she has any idea what is going on, and I'm trying to figure out the best way to talk to her. S18 was unaware that there are any issues, and so I'm sure she is too. If anyone has suggestions, I'm all ears.