Also, of note, with four children we have been sharing custody since she moved out in January 2009. I have them 3 or 4 nights a week, and she has them the other nights, so 50-50 custody.
Strange how kids have adjusted to this routine.
Me: 41 W: 41 Married: 17 years Together: 19 years 16-Sept-2008: "W: I want to move out." 16-Jan-2009: Separated, wife moved out. 31-Mar-2010: W, and kids move back home! D 14 S 12 D 11 S 7