Hi Mar - Perhaps you have addressed in another thread, but how/why did your A end? How long did it last? Was he married or in a relationship?

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the emotional stuff would still be there and I didn't know if I could do that at that point, because the emotional stuff would interfere

Sounds like MLC.

Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM