We all seem to have the same problem. My wife quit touching me in early august. Went to a divorce atty before laborday. Selfish and not thinking about our 22 years together and our two sons. At first would not even go to counseling w/me. I just got her to go last night and she said she will never have sex w/me again even if we did stay married. After counseling, I was told she did not want to work on marriage . Then I called her after I left our house to think, to ask for confirmation "do you want a divorce?" She said yes. I should not of forced the issue. I said something to her about a childhood trauma when she was 16, and she wont forgive me. She agreed to continue counseling but I think that is to wait until our 16yr.old son is out, then she will leave. She does not want me in the same bed, and she slept on the couch last night. She has become a different, strange person in the last 8 weeks. All her divorced friends are telling her to leave me. Her family also. I never did anything major enough to have this hit our relationship. This is incredibly difficult, my two boys are shattered, and all she can think about is herself, and not working it out. Mabe in the next two years I can save this, but it is the worst problem Ive ever had to deal with. We also are under financial stress,since my salary has been cut by 40%. Sure is great to have two major battles to deal with. Major evil and pain going on in the world, never thought it would enter my house. Me 48 Her 48 Son 21 son 16. No affairs. Just a wife w/messed up head
