I do not disagree Shocked. All I can say is that I was in full spy mode and desired to know all I could. I have told very few people of that transgression. She accessed her work email from the home computer, and I was able to get her password from the spyware I installed.
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM