I'm brand new here but I'm having the same questions. My W & I are still living under the same roof but she fits the WAW description to a T & has brought up S or D.
I literally break down in tears every time I think about trying to explain a S or D to our 4 year old son. There's just no way I'll be able to do that w/o completely losing it. My eyes are watering up right now as I type this.
If we get to that point, I can't even imagine what my first day w/o my son would be like. I imagine I'd spend most of it curled up in the fetal position crying my eyes out.
I can't believe my W is okay with heading in that direction.


Me-39
W-31
S-4
Bomb- 9/5/09
Discovered EA- 9/15/09
Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09
W moved out 10/31/09