My Intro: Thanks for Reading!

[billclay18]

I think we'd all agree that I have been focusing on minutia when I should be pulling out and working more from a 10,000 foot view point. As I read the many many sitchs on the forum, being observant and appropriately responsive at the right times seems to be a key factor in success...oh, and, time ;-)

Yep! Letting go and time are our allies. I don't what will happen in my sitch, but my W was bound and determined she wanted a D. It's 3-1/2 months later and neither of us has filed. What does that mean? Maybe nothing, but letting go, giving her time and space hasn't made things worse so far.