I am sorry that you are feeling down about the conversation.

I will say this, I don't think you can have a relationship with anyone without second guessing. Right now, the OM keeps her mind occupied. But at some point the glamour will wear off, and he will just be another guy. If you can hang in there, you might be able to see it through.

Also, divorce is just a piece of paper. Look at it this way...if the time comes that you do reconcile, you can always remarry. And there seriously is a possibility that if it comes to that, you may not WANT to reconcile. I realize it may not seem like that now, but trust me, it can happen wink


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..