My H refused to go to MC at all but I can kinda see his point. We did it several years ago and it didn't really help at all (stayed with him anyway...and look where that got me!). If I could get the extra cash it would be the DB counselors on this site I'd call-seems people here find it more helpful that normal MC.
Sorry for your situation and yes you are right that people can think they are out of love due to problems but falling back in love is possible!