Thats great, LFA. I hated the idea of needing to get a lawyer, but I am so glad that I did, and am so comfortable with mine too. (she sounds alot like yours)

I'm doing OK. I always have a tough time when he has the boys (yesterday). Its so much easier when I don't have to deal him! I'm actually happy that he has drill this weekend for the army so I don't have to see/talk to him.

Any more contact/pressure from H?

Me: 36
H: 33
S1: 4
S2: 2
Together: 13 years
Married: 7 years
Bomb: May 09
Found out about affair: June 09
Moved out: June 09
He Filed: July 09
Moved in with OW: July 09