Yes...I saw it. I'm actually enjoying my life right now. I can take a class if I want to, I can join a gym if I want to, I can anything or nothing. I'm responsible for no one but myself, my dog & my D11 when she's with me. That is a big 180 for me. I have spent more time with friends and family in the past month than I have in the past year.
But I get your point, challenge myself to try things I'm not necessarily comfortable with....I might surprise myself.
Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage) W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage) M4 Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D W moved out 8/29/09 I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done