You have definitely run the gamit here, and given it your best shot. But I don't think these people realize you can't slap someone in the face, apologize, and then turn around and do it again, even harder.
Stand firm Girlie. I am not sure what the divorce laws are where you are, can you just serve him or does it need to be a joint decision?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..