My Intro: Thanks for Reading!

[billclay18]

I'm not thinking about her as much and definitely not OM. That's not to say I've processed or dealt with anything. If I do think about it too much I am right back into sadness, hurt and anger. If I feel myself going there I divert.

Good, that's a step in the right direction. It's all about you now, not her.

Knowing her as i do, and mind reading, I assume that she believes I'm punishing her for her asking for us to move forward with disillusion.

You have no way of knowing this...mind reading...we're all guilty of it, but it serves no purpose. How are you punishing her...by giving her what she wants???

I haven't heard anything about disillusion paperwork so we'll see where that goes. If it's just templated stuff she should be able to get it in my hands quickly. I'm setting myself up to expect it.

I'm in the same sitch (see my thread)...sent the paperwork last week at W's request and haven't heard anything . Is no news good news? Anybody's guess. It's out of my hands now...and it's actually a relief.