Returning from the land of excuses...

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I cannot BELIEVE the audacity of this man I am sharing a name with. I can't even say married to anymore.

It has been a year since we filed the bankruptcy. We make the payments every month as it is a debt consolidation bankruptcy. Anyway, apparently stbx got behind on his mortgage...AGAIN...

Irony is that I work in bankruptcy in NY, so I took a look at my case file online through the bankruptcy court yesterday. Apparently they have written the six months worth of past due mortgage payments into the bankruptcy.

Now, stbx lied to me about that, because he said he was only 3 months behind. I don't really care about that because it is his house, but it just shows a pattern of lies he has told me over the past two years. But I digress...there is a purpose to this.

I noticed that the payment went up by about $100. Panicked, I sent him a text. I have just finally started to get up on my feet, I don't need any more debt right now. Heard nothing. So I called the bankruptcy attorney, and he explained that the mortgage was almost $4,000 in arrears, and the bank was about to foreclose on the house. However, the excess should not affect my payment because this was his fukc up.

So later I get a text back with him telling me that my half is going to go up $35. Uh....no....I did not NOT pay the mortgage on HIS house. I mean, the whole reason we had to even FILE bankruptcy is because he just couldn't be married to me anymore, and all of a sudden a double income household went to two single income households.

So NOW he asks for understanding. Screw that! Why should I be understanding??? Why is this my problem??? I am so mad I could scream. This is not my house, this is not my debt.

So of course I said to him do you think I wanted this? (meaning the debt and the bankruptcy) and he automatically thinks I am talking about the fact that we are separated. Self centered, self serving bastard. I corrected him on that, because of course at this point I just don't give a shlt. That shut him up really quick.

The attorney said he would correct the payment issue w/ stbx, and let stbx know that just because he cannot live within his means doesn't mean he can keep putting his debt off on me. Part of me wants to write a long nasty email to him, but at the same time I realize that won't get me anywhere. I am not looking for reconcilation with this moron anymore, but I don't want my stress level to go up either.

Whew....drama drama drama. His chief complaint and yet his life is full of it.