Thanks Nell for your supportive words! I have been trying to get past my ego and listen to God's guidance (or if you don't believe in God then call it that inner guide that comes from peace & wisdom)...well I got an answer back on what action to take on these feelings and it's very unexpected. But coming from where I'm at with wondering if the marriage should be saved...I have nothing to lose really. The outcome of trying God's guidance will be whatever it needs to be. Afraid that if I type it here I'll think about it too hard and chicken out so will update later.
