Thanks for the kind words and well wishes..

I'm coming here less and less...and I'm just about done here..

it's coming up on my 1 year D anniversary..around Nov. 23rd or so..can't remember the exact date without looking at the papers or looking at my old threads..

anyway..Kim and I co-parent and that's it...she has picked up texting and that is good for me..the less face to face i have with her the better i like it..

A song to tell where I am..

"Love Don't Live Here Anymore" Lady Antebellum


Well this heart of mine
Has been hardened like a stone
It might take some time
To get back what is gone
But I'm movin' on
And you don't haunt my dreams
Like you did before
When I would curse your name


Hey Well I heard the news
That you were back in town
Just passin' through
To claim your lost and found

But I'm over you
And there ain't nothin' that
You could say or do
To take what you did back


Well you got nerve to waltz right in
And think what's mine is yours again

Well I've been doin' fine without you
Forgettin' all the love we once knew
And girl I ain't the one who slammed that door

But now you say you've changed your thinkin'
But I ain't got a heart for breakin'
So go and pick your bags up off my floor
Cuz love don't live here anymore

Oh no

Well baby you can try
To tell me how it is
And try to justify
Everything you did



But honey I'm no fool
And I've been down this road
Too many times with you
I think it's best you go


Well I got one thing left to say
Is you can lay in the bed you've made

Well I've been doin' fine without you
Forgettin' all the love we once knew
And girl I ain't the one who slammed that door
But now you say you've changed your thinkin'
But I ain't got a heart for breakin'
So go and pick your bags up off my floor
Cuz love don't live here anymore

Oh no no

Love dont Live here anymore

Sugar no no


And you dont live here anymore
Love don't live here anymore
Since you walked out of my door
Love don't live here
Love don't live here girl

Oh love don't live here anymore



No wedding date set yet. maybe spring, probably summer..on a beach somewhere...just us and the kids...maybe even on the Outer Banks...everything is going good..