Hey Julia,

I'm so pleased to hear from you! How are you feeling since making the decision?

I am thinking like you regarding the financials; What's the worst that can happen? It will mean we have separate financials. In reality lots of couples have separate financials anyway.

I'm just taking one day at a time at the moment. I feel I am projecting a pretty upbeat image and he is being quite genuine at present. i even thought him telling me B and SIl were coming was a big deal. He usually tells me very little.

Health is excellent. Physio was happy with me and surgeon so I should be right to get back to hospital for the next surgery on schedule. Yay!

In the meantime I'm looking for this surfer dude for you!

Cheers,

Cas