Sorry haven't checked in recently. Still nothing happening? Surely there is something, anything?
I used to do belly dancing, but I am not that co-ordinated and trying to put the moves together in one flowing sensuous dance just didn't happen for me. Pole dancing, that comes easy, no hard moves to remember there, slide up and down a pole baring as much of yourself as you can, voila.
so MF, did you get ahold of the C person nearby? I did use Michelle's during my sitch. and don't worry about being alone. In most cases, I think it's usually not a good idea for the WAS to go to C, unless they have made a decision to work on their M.
Awesome news about s12's game!!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Sorry I've been absent for awhile, I know you heard about Joey, and to add to the crazy, my older son is having some health issues. Nothing too serious, but serious enough to be taking lots of time and energy.
How are YOU? It seems that you've hit a DB plateau? Are you still taking your classes, walking, etc?
Fill me in a little - even though I haven't been around, I've been thinking about you.
ST! You just have to check out Dia's thread. She's gone so far beyond what we were discussing here!
OK, here's the report! I have found some words...
We had a really nice night, last Wednesday... Then a sh*tty Saturday (I DB'd my arse off, though! Didn't fall into his bratty traps! He was exhausted, lost on the way to a soccer game, and starving w/no where to have dinner... I didn't engage him, try to save him, like I normally would have. I told him to call the coach if he couldn't find the game, not me... told him where "we" were having dinner, and he was free to join us, but if not, we're going to eat anyhow...) He was much better on Sunday and Monday... but I was sick. Ugh!
So, the past few days I've only talked to him about once/day (he travels for work), and only about logistics for kids. He'll be home tonight, and I've made a recipe I wanted to try. H loves comfort food when he's home from traveling, since he eats out so much. So, I made a homemade chicken pot pie, with fresh chicken, alfredo sauce as the base, lots of veggies, and a buttery, cheesy, yummy crust topping. Smells delicious! And, I don't even like pot pie!
Bought some new lingerie, as well. Pretty. Black w/a white bow.
I have been still walking and doing the exercise classes, and keeping the eating down. I feel better. I look a bit better, etc...
I leave for LA, CA on Sunday night, and H will be in charge of the kids while I'm gone. My mom and D18 will pitch in, but, for the most part, H will have to stay home and handle it.
I'll be back Friday night, around midnight, and we have a soccer tournament out of town that weekend. Joy!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
