I thought that is what you would say!! Point taken though.

I have asked him to look after the babies previously and he just says "put them in the kennels" or "let me know the dates and I will get back to you". Trouble is, I don't trust him not to bring ow here if it's a weekend ... he's done it once (even though he later apologised) but I can't risk it happening again.

I have to find another way ... right now, I feel like a widow. I am getting so desperate to find a way of 'getting to him' and nothing seems to do so, other than when I rant at him and then he just walks away .... I am going dark again ... very, very dark but I need some help.


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09