leaving her daughter, risking her career(adultry is a crime in the military as is fraternization), not speaking to her parents anymore or mine and on and on and on. And the lies, oh there were so many lies.
What you wrote above is so, so, so familiar (see my situation).
I sincerely wish you the best my friend.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)