Karen, if your keeps the CS shenanigans up he's facing having his wages garnished. I'd throw that out there if he keeps this b-s up.
Don't they do that all the time after the D? He's a govt. employee, so I was thinking they take it from their paycheck like he does with other bills. Something to ask the L about. I think it'll be good to have less of a feeling of panic about him not sending the check if he's upset with me or whatever....