Oz, I hate the follow ups. I see the oncologist every 6 months and the surgeon every 6. Those visits come around awfully quickly. Althought I know in my heart I am healthy there's always the 'what if' in the back of my mind as I wait to see them, esp the onc.
H has also requested me to update(justify) the amount I would like him to pay in child support. As we have no financial settlemtn yet I am wondering if I should push ahead on that score just so that it's no longer hanging over my head and I know that there is no ulterior motive in being friends. It would also show I am moving on....a 180.
