Really have someone along with you at the least and maybe change your plans a bit. His knowing your movements around town is creepy.
kat
I think so too! I'm trying to figure out how he knows my schedule--he hadn't seen the kids at that point today, and I hadn't told the kids my plans or anything, so weird.
So, as expected X did show up at the church to get the kids. He came 10 minutes before S15's volunteer work was done, and then came and got D9. We were sitting outside doing her homework--today was the most beautiful weather ever here! I'm thinking he showed up early thinking I might just try to leave a few minutes early and avoid him. I never thought about sneaking around or pulling the kids out early or anything. I don't think like that.
I expected it this time, so I guess not as traumatic. D9 was freaking out a bit b/c she wasn't able to finish her math page-autistic kids like transition time, so they had an argument when they were leaving. I realized also today that X has been taking off work early the last 3 Tuesdays! Wonder how he fills out that leave slip??? I said nothing to X, just helped D9 get her stuff together in her pack and told the kids I loved them.
He left the custody/child support check in my car, so I am so relieved not to have to worry about eviction. Whew! When he was talking about holding it for another 10 days, I was so worried. I was hoping though that he would realize with all the kids have gone through, me getting evicted, not having money for groceries and gas would effect the kids, not just me. They've already gone through so much this past year or 2!
I talked to the pastor again about the mom's morning out job. I have to write up a rough draft outline this weekend. I'm going to visit another one in GA (field trip). I need to get my infant CPR and some other stuff like that.
I had that walking job this spring (4 hours a day) and that owner also offered to hire me this spring also if I don't have a job yet, so I could do that one plus the other job, but I think I may be getting too old for all that walking! Nice to know I have such supportive people in my life though.
Something I've noticed lately is everyone seems to come to me and confess all this deep, dark stuff in their life. I don't remember that happening so much before, but maybe going through this D has had something to do with that. I mean it's like almost nonstop people just confiding all this stuff to me. Has anyone else noticed this happening to them too? Just curious.
