If you read the last I think maybe 4 or 5 pages might be more not sure, you will see where my sitch went really pearshaped then came good.
As far as what turned it around, not sure, a combination of things I think, I at first thought the GALing and being mysterious worked against me as H became very aggressive and accused me of having an affair and it all got a bit yucky. In hindsight and as Gucci pointed out, it did work because his jealousy over the thought that I had moved on and found someone else got so bad that he moved out but had to keep coming back to me and in an odd way he was pursuing me. This all happened over a period of a week - accused, he moved out and then began chasing me.
Last Friday when he came looking for me, we ended up having a 5 hour conversation where nothing was left unsaid or not discussed.
So there is hope for everyone here, it just comes slowly for some and quickly for others and in different ways.
