I am a devotee of the Dia thread and recently (this past week) have repaired my own R and M.
Firstly, yes men are visual creatures and first impressions count, so you need to make sure you have on an outfit that you know will get your H's attention, depending on what he likes, whether it be getting the girls out there or whatever, he must have a preference for a look and you need to cater to that in part. You must smell good and a very big important thing is your smile, relaxed, confident the sort that gets attention.
Don't go in to hard with the flirting or he might be suspicious just be subtle. I am still learning the art of flirting, inspired by Dia, so please read her thread.
Others will be along soon. Good luck and just remember it won't happen overnight, so don't have any massive expectations about that one date.
