OK. First, I am worried you are putting a lot of pressure on yourself pulling everything out on one date. I think that is unrealistic and is probably setting yourself up for disappointment. I do think you could look at this date as a possible step in the right direction.
Second, men are really just grown up little boys. Feeding our egos goes a long way as long as the compliments are genuine and sincere. We like it when a woman seems interested in us and seems like they want to know more about us. Showing interest in what we like to do is a biggie too.
And, we are visually stimulated. So, the outfit, the look, is important. It's the eyecatcher that makes us want to know more. Personally, I prefer elegantly sexy to smokin' hot sexy (but, that's not bad either).
As for flirting, I think you could learn alot from Dia's thread. She has done a wonderful job of wooing her H. Work in that look. Touch his hand if you are at that stage. Stay lokced in on him, but not overly so. Give him your attention.
Hopefully, she, and others who follow her thread will soon chime in.
I think, in the end, show genuine interest in your H. Let him know you think he is important. Give him the impression you are proud to be with him.
One final thing. Please have a great time, but do not have any expectations...none. What your H does/says is something over which you have no control. Just be in the moment, have fun and see where it goes.
