An interesting thing is the kids are so clingy on me when she is around it is a great feeling not bc of being mean to her but the love I get from them it is unconditional and it is showing in front of her, so idk if that has an impact or not in her current state of mind. Well we are in the same room at the moment watching tv and that is an improvement to our sit also.
Jman,
That kind of interaction between you and your kids can only help your sitch, even if a little bit. I suspect that when my W sees this same type of interaction between our kids and I, she has to question- even if a little bit- what it is she is doing... even if her conscience doesn't seem to be fully functional at the moment.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________