Trusting, I think you have the right idea about taking care of your goals and the kids.

"He is just looking for a narcissistic feed to suck dry."

My guess is that he is also lonely. Think about it: broke, hates OW, all kinds of problems.

It sounds as if it makes sense to not respond.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D