Yes, I saw that. I just didn't see a question. I thought you explained yourself very well.....(lol). The truth is, I did not have you in mind, at all, when I said what I did in my post on that thread. I "should" have--since it was your thread, but I was actually thinking of another member who I had just talked with and it was after your post that it hit me--that was your thread I said all of that. I typed a post to point out that I was talking in general and then deleted it, thinking at the time it might be best if I didn't say anything more. Maybe I was wrong. I really hope that I did not offend you b/c I think you know I would tell you whatever I thought, right? Even though I may think your WAW should have her butt kicked, I have never seen you being weak in any way. I do see you as a nice man, but I mean that in a nice way......lol. (You know I'm crzay about ya, BJ!)
Seriously, I sure did not mean to sound like I was throwing off on you when I said what I did about "nice guys". But if there was something I missed that you were wanting me to see, tell me what it is, okay? Sometimes I have to have a picture drawn.
Sandi,
No problem! I took no offense to the prior post, it just got me thinking about things with my sitch and how I'm changing up how I interact with my W these days. Although I'm not second guessing my initial approach to my sitch, I have been feeling lately like I might have been a little slow in changing over to more of the tough love approach. Definitely what my W needs right now, for sure.
Anyways, thanks for checking in on me Sandi.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
