Okay -validate does not mean agree. I was confused a bit over that. I think early on I agreed too much, rather than validated.
Well, tonight I was talking to my son, and he went to see if our oldest daughter wanted to talk. Somewhere during that, the phone on his end got hung up. I tried calling back several times and even left one message, but here it is an hour later, and no one's answering the phone.
I also swear that someone was listening into the phone conversation - there was some breathing that didn't sound like it came from either one of us. But I'm not sure.
Her parents are evil.
Me: 35 W: 31 D10, S7, S2, S11 months M: 11 years Tricked into separation. In Last Resort.
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053