With your help I just posted my first thread in Newcomers. (Thank you for your directions!) It's kinda long......it HAS been 12 months after all.....but if you have a chance I'm wondering if you would please give me your advice about how to flirt with H when he takes me out to dinner to celebrate my birthday in 2 nights. I need advice from men and flirty girls. I have the pu$h-up bra, the midnight blue V-neck knit top that makes my eyes look like azur pools he could drown in, the pencil skirt with kick pleat in back, and blue suede high-heels......now I need inspiration. Trying to move from stage 2 to 3. Thanks!