You have to try and find the fun in even the smallest things. I know you don't see H much but when you do try and have something fun planned for while he is there, as Sanderika said, have a picnic, even if you have one at home, meet him somewhere so he can see you, the sexy sassy fun loving Nell with the big infectious smile arrive, who knows H may notice the admiring looks you get when you arrive from others.
Think of my sitch, the minute H realised others were looking and then thought that hey she could already be seeing someone else, he threw a bit of hissy fit, acted like a teenager again but then came running back.
As LR suggested try to find something in the volunteer line of work for a weekend here and there at an animal shelter, anything. Do you have a community centre at all where you live or near where you live Nell?
