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Text from the She said "Great pics of (d). Friend me on FB so you can see them or we can connect later (smiley face)."

Hmmmm...I hope it's not a dog trap.


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A bunch of texts and a phone call or two from the She.

Hmmm...


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Friend me on FB so you can see them or we can connect later (smiley face)."


"Looking forward to seeing them. Hey -- can you just e-mail them to me?"

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A bunch of texts and a phone call or two from the She.


Hmmmm. It's quiet. Too quiet. What's that Dawg up to? Better check in for his daily f*ckaround....

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More texts. More friendiness from the She.

Wondering if she isn't really lonely. She used to text with BFF dozens of times an hour. Now they aren't speaking.

O'dog spent evening talking with the neighbors and a few others while kids ran wild.


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O'dog is doing good, especially under the circumstances.


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The She and D were out of town for a few days and just got back today. BFF moved out stuff while they were gone so it was the first time any of them had seen house after the big out.

I had to drop a kid off over there and bring some other stuff over so I got to view the scene. The kids were amused at the empty spaces. "Listen Duhddy. It echoes." The She seemed somewhat overwhelmed - taking stock of what was left and think through the "what do I do next". A bunch of furniture gone. No tv or audio stuff (it's all in the O'doghouse). Even snacking was difficult as She realized that there were some holes in the kitchen equipe.

Interesting times. Div hearing in two days.


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In his doghouse.
Warm dogbed.
Dreaming.

What?
One watchful eye.
No need to stir.
Asleep again.




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Specific advice for the O'dog at the div hearing tomorrow?

Planning to just stay quiet and cool.


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That's it. Maintain your coolness. But also be strong, powerful, secure, confident, and compassionate.


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You're "already divorced", so there is no way this can possibly hurt.


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