a note to my wife

[Dom R]

well... a 3 month followup, since I hate to leave loose ends for other people.

She DID respond to my post... she responded by hiring a new lawyer, within a day or two of my post, and the separation D-day.

Maybe i should have just kept my mouth shut or maybe it really didnt make any difference. She always seems to get hostile/antsy in june. It's when her teaching winds down, and she has the long summer ahead of her.

She claims she is NOT planning to move in with her current BF, or even introduce him to our children. Yet she still wants to finish up the divorce.


Skipping over various things... final court meetings for resolution, disolution,etc. are set for Jan 2010.
(interestingly, that will be almost on the "anniversary" of me being served divorce papers by her, 3 years before)

I've stopped extending myself to her in the face of her continuing to cheat on me, and impending divorce. I have dropped the rope, as of a month ago.
(in self-contemplation... I think that I may have kept trying, if only one of them was going on... but both is too much)

"and taht's all i have to say about that..."

Probably will just post a final note in Jan when things are "signed", and I officially get to jump into the waters of dating, instead of just watching poolside


To Trixi: I wish that things go better for your marriage, than mine. Hope your H keeps to his word and goes to Retro (and actually puts in effort there!)

To Jen:
...
nothing really to say to you at the moment, I guess. I'm just sad for our family.