FIB who the hell knows what your w is thinking/doing/believing today at this hour...or tonight? But let me hazard one guess and that is...she is one lost puppy.
good God...I don't quite pity her b/c of "my anger issues" with her but there is a part of me that thinks she is just around the corner from a big brick wall called reality and she's going to slam right into it...I don't want to be in her blast zone when that happens. You have to be ready b/c in my mind she can go one of two ways, given the anger she's shown in the past--she could go full blown tornado crazy mad and hurl out anything to hurt OR, OR, she could fall apart and show up on your doorstep sobbing and reeling from her awakening...if she has one.
Your sitch is unique (no, I don't think this comment applies to others situations) but I think it's a real poss for you. Be careful and be ready for anything. Get your acting skills ready too, so you don't look too shocked at either course of action. But...there is a day coming that this will be over and done with, at least this part of it which I think is the hardest part. Why? Despite the consequences of a split family, you won't be in her blast zone. That counts for something. You'll see.
(SIGH) and again, (Sigh) ((( j )))
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