Bewildered

[pearlharbr]

Take a deep breath. It's not going to happen overnight. The goal is to get past the fear, don't let it control you.

Seeing the L may spur her on to action or it may be a huge eye opener for her. You don't know what the outcome will be so no use worrying about it now.

Remember, you can only control your own actions.

Pursuing hasn't worked so try something else.