I don't want to hijack this thread here, but JMC, her work email? The home computer and her account as your wife are one thing, but getting into her work email, I would be afraid of leagalities there, unless this is a company owned by you or her.
Myself, I don't see me ever being back together with with my WAXW. Too many hurtful words and actions. I can't forsee the future, but it would be a long hard road to repair the damages, if it could ever be done.
