Thanks puppy. You are soooo right. I had previously purposely missed calls and then just texted to see what he needed. Should have done that today. I'll think about requesting that he not call.
Me: 36 H: 33 S1: 4 S2: 2 Together: 13 years Married: 7 years Bomb: May 09 Found out about affair: June 09 Moved out: June 09 He Filed: July 09 Moved in with OW: July 09