Bewildered

[KiwiMan]

Hi Pearlharbr,

I know... going back to the wrong way to deal with things.

My fear is that today we are going to see a lawyer who is "Pro-Marriage" and their philosophy is reconcilliation.

The reason we are both going together is that he is going to explain what the road ahead looks like and what needs to happen for the seperation to happen.

I guess I feel like I am running out of time and that once we see him... all of the things such as the house we own etc etc is going to start to fall apart. Thats where I think the pursuing comes in on my part.

I am just afraid that once she knows the way ahead, its going to speed up the process of going seperate ways.

Today is a big day... and I am quite worried.

Thanks