Instead of looking at charm, find out what the moral character of the man is. Look at how he treats his mother --- usually a good clue. Did the mother allow the son to grow up, or is he still in that dependent state? As soon as a man wants to sweep you off your feet too fast, before meeting family, etc. then think carefully. It's a matter of respect, trust and finally, love. But, it is nice to have that feeling of crazy love, but that's when you date --- not marry.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim